Archive for July, 2008

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A quote

July 30, 2008

Someone posted this on F-net, and I thought it was really interesting to ponder:

“Thomas Merton once said that spiritual life is essentially to love. One doesn’t love in order to do what is good or to help or to protect someone. If we act that way, we are perceiving the other as a simple object, and we are seeing ourselves as wise and generous persons. This has nothing to do with love. To love is to be in communion with the other and to discover in that other the spark of God.”

- except from the Author’s note in “By the River Pedra, I Sat Down and Wept” by Paulo Coelho

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Certified awesomeness

July 28, 2008

Friday night was pretty chill – Marty and I decided to have a quick dinner and head to see the early show of The Dark Knight at the Beaches Cinema.  Totally worth it.  I’ve head lots of hype about this movie, but it’s truly a good one.  Heath Ledger is fantastic at the Joker.  He’s strange, twisted, and malicious, yet you’re totally enthralled with him.  Aaron Eckhart is also really good as Harvey Dent.  I really enjoy him as a lead-type guy, and there always seems to be something genuine about him.  These gents definitely steal the show, and although I do enjoy both Michael Caine and Christian Bale too, I’ve gotta say they didn’t stand out nearly as much.  The plot of the movie is also fantastic.  Seriously – go see this movie!

Saturday and Sunday were taking up with doing a First Aid/CPR course with the St John’s Ambulance crew.  There were about 20 of us in the class – interestingly even on guy named Jeff who went to Grebel with M.  It was good – the information has been update quite a bit since I last did my training (with JetsGo in 2005).  The instructor, Will, was awesome and really made it fun.  In the end, I got my certificate – yet one other step needed for school!

I’m getting there.

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Knowing is half the battle

July 25, 2008

Huzzah!

I’ve had a “weird fruit allergy” for about 2 years now.  It all started when I discovered a weird hive/closed throat feeling after eating apples.  I would also have a burning sensation in my esophagus for hours afterwards.  Not cool.  Since that discovery, I’ve also noticed I’m allergic to plums, apricots, peaches, nectarines, and sometimes cherries.  But it’s only raw ones.  It’s really annoying because I love these fruits!  :(

What’s even weirder is that I’ve always been waiting to get allergy testing done at a naturopath and I always thought I was unique so I never googled this.  Today I did and discovered that I have what’s called Oral Allergy Syndrome.  It explains everything!

I’m still going to a naturopath to get this confirmed, and to get some ideas about how to deal with it – but seriously, it feels good knowing I’m not alone!

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Reconnecting

July 25, 2008

Ok – so more baby steps.

Yesterday, I finally stopped sitting on my want to catch up with my awesome pal from Queen’s Matty B and I gave him a call. It was funny. I said “It’s Felicity!”, and he was like “Who?”. Funny one. Either way, it was really good to talk to him and to find out that he’s been just a crazy as me with all the stuff he’s been doing lately. It also re-affirmed that good friends are forgiving! Woot!

Last night was another reconnection. I went out to the new Milestone’s in the AMC complex in Dundas Square with my friend Michelle. We drank an ultimate bellini and caught up – we haven’t seen each other since November – and there’s been tons going on in our lives. It was really nice to hear how she’s thriving at her job, she still madly in love with her BF and all is well.

I guess I can do this! ;)

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Dinner and beyond

July 24, 2008

Last night as there were so few of us that could meet for LR, Rachel and I were invited over to dinner shindig that was happening at Enoch’s place.  I walked a little late but was greeted with enthusiasm, and a nice cold, homemade Mojito.  Excellent!

The dinner was nice – it was with a great bunch of people I know but haven’t spent time with in a long time.  Lots of awesome food made by Nicole, Karl’s fiancee.  We just chatted, had drinks, relaxed and got to know each other a bit more.  I can’t even tell you how great it was to go out and do that again with people I know.  Especially ones from my church.  I’ve been feeling so much like I’m in limbo these days, and totally disconnected from my church community, that it felt really good to socialize with them.  Plus the people I was chillin with were all a bunch of hipster city kids – and it made me remember some of the great feelings of being a cool city kid.

It seems there has been so much change in my life that I feel like I’ve had to say “Hello grown up married type Felicity” and goodbye to “gregarious fun-loving Felicity”.  It’s a crappy feeling because the grown up Felicity feels a little too innondated with the seriousness of life.  I’ve been really scared that I’m losing my ability to be social and to make connections…or even worse, that’s I’m no longer worth making those connections with.  Maybe that explains why I’m so nervous to catch up with some of my friends.  I can’t meet them as my fun loving self because that girl is tucked away somewhere. 

But it’s all about baby steps, right?  Last night was a good one.  I’m still fun, and outgoing, and friendly.  And I can carry on a conversation.  Another one was resetting my iPod and listening to my awesome tunage while commuting to work sur la TTC.  It reminded me that I’m still that music lover, I’m still a city girl. 

Now I just need to get back in to my skinny jeans.

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Today’s a crazy day, but yesterday was good

July 23, 2008

It’s been a pretty busy day at work – I’ve been working on emails not stop for about an hour and a half now, but that was too be expected because I’m getting a bunch of vacation requests.  Phew – glad it’s almost over!

Yesterday was good – Rachel, Hannah (Rachel’s sister) and I went fabric shopping to get something that all of us can use to make our bridesmaid dresses.  It’s gotten to be an easier adventure because now we’re all matching – so it made sense that we went looking for one piece of fabric.  Rachel’s mum and sister can do the other girls, and my mum has graciously agreed to help me make my own verzion of the dress of my dreams.  Luckily we found some great polyester imitation silk-type fabric that doesn’t wrinkle much and is the perfect colour – and it wasn’t too bad in price, especially because the staff were awesome enough to let Rachel use Nick’s membership card.  :)   Now all I’ve got to do it wait for the dress patterns I won on ebay so Mum can start on the dress.

It was also lucky that by chance we passed a store that was selling shoes at a very reasonable price.  Both Rachel and Hannah found the white shoes they were looking for for the big day.  Yess!

I’m getting excited!

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Historical drama queening (be warned, it’s long but interesting)

July 22, 2008

While it’s gracefully pouring a plethora of cats and dogs outside, I thought I would brush everyone up on some interesting facts about a historical drama queen – this is course if inspired by my recently having read the book The Other Boleyn Girl.

Anne Boyeln came from a family that prized a good social standing seemingly above all else. Anne’s own sister Mary because King Henry VII’s lover at a young age. Anne has other visions in sight as she entertained a romace with Henry Percy, a rich heir. Their engagement was not recognized by his family and it was finally stopped by Colonel Wolsey (leaving him hated by Anne). It is supposed that after this she was sent away from court to her family’s home for an undefined period of time.

When Anne returned to court, she became well know for being able to seduce men at arm’s length. She was described by Sir Thomas Wyatt as being unobtainable and headstrong though she seemed demure and quiet. It was around this time that Anne stole the King’s affections from her sister. Henry fell in love passionately and was driven mad by Anne as she would not succomb to being his mistress, but only his wife. Henry pursued her relentlessly, and soon it became “Queen or nothing” for Anne.

This was a complicated issue, as Henry was still married to his first wife, Queen Catherine. Anne is believed to be a main source of what influenced Henry to create a new church (the church of England) so to allow his first marriage to Queen Catherine to be annulled so that he and Anne could be married “in good conscience”. As Henry was pursuing the annullment, Anne began to see a rise in her courtly status. She was moved to apartments near the King, and give lavish clothes and jewelery. In 1532 Henry bestowed upon her the title of Marquess of Pembroke, making her the only woman to ever hold that title in her own right. This did not make her popular with the people of England. They were upset that she was given precendence over the King’s own family.

As the legal debates surrounding the marriage of Henry and Catherine, Anne often became frustrated at the lack of progress. She would often throw loud tempestous fits in front of the court. She could also have a very sharp tongue. Anne was afraid that Henry would return to Cathering, leaving her without an adventageous marriage.

Sometime at the end of 1532, Anne gave in to Henry’s lustful desires and by December she was pregnant. Henry was forced in to action to secure the legitimacy of his child, and he secretly married Anne sometime in January of 1533. On May 23, Thomas Cranmer, the former chaplain of the Boleyn family and appointed Archbishop, declared the marriage of Henry and Catherine null and void. On May 28, Cranmer declared the marriage between Anne and Henry was valid. Anne’s attention was then placed on her upcoming child. All home were placed on it being a son, and the unborn child was already being referred to as “prince”. However, as the fates would have it, Anne bore a daughter she named Elizabeth.

Marriage for Anne and Henry was not pleasent. Although there were periods of calm and affection, Anne would often feel enraged by her husbands infidelities, especially when his attentions were placed on Jane Seymour by her enemies. Henry disliked Anne’s constant irritability and her violent temper. Anne also did not bear Henry any other children, having more than one pregnancy but each resulting in a stillborn or miscarriage. Anne’s ability to produce and heir was imperative, and her failure to do was considered a betrayal by Henry.

Soon Henry was discussing how to leave Anne without having to return to Catherine. Anne was unaware and continued to enjoy a lavish lifestyle, during which opinion of her continued to decline. After Henry was injured in a joust, a event that was blamed for Anne’s miscarriage of 15 week old son, the marriage began to go sour. Desperate to bear Henry a son, Anne had a quick succession of preganancies which attracted much interest. After what would be her final miscarriage, Henry declared his marriage had been the product of witchcraft (a terrible sin and explanation for Anne’s barreness). Anne’s favour was securely transferred to Jane Seymour.

On April 30, 1536, the first step in a plot to rid Anne from the throne was taken. It involved the arrest of Anne’s musician and friend Mark Smeaton, who was tortured to make “revelations” about the Queen. He confessed to being the Queen’s lover. Next were more arrests of men in Anne’s entourage: Sir Henry Norris, Sir Francis Weston, and William Brereton. The grounds were all adultery. Finally, Queen Anne’s own brother, George Boleyn was arrested and charged with incest and treason, and accused of having had a sexual relationship with his sister over the last 12 months.

Anne herself was arrested on May 2, 1536, and accused of incest, adultery and plotting to kill the King. Henry had also made the midwife confess about the fates of Anne’s unborn children. Anne was charged on these grounds also. Anne was taken to the Tower of London, suffering a minor breakdown. This was the same Tower in which she had stayed during her coronation just three years prior.

On May 12, 1536 Weston, Brereton, Norris and Smeaton were all put on trial. The men were not allowed to defend themselves as the charge was treason. The were found guilty, and were set to be hanged, cut down while still alive and then disemboweld and quartered. On May 15, the Queen and her brother went to trial. Although the evidence was flimsy, they were found guilty and codemned to death by beheading or by burnt at the stake (punishment for incest) by their peers. On May 17, George was beheaded along with the other charged men who were spared from the above grisly fate. Soon it was Anne’s turn. She was to be beheaded by a swordsman from Saint-Omer because the King did not believe it fit for a queen to be beheaded by a common axe.

On May 19, Anne was brought to the Tower Green for her private execution. Anne wore a red petticoat under a loose, dark grey gown of damask trimmed in fur and a mantle of ermine. Her dark hair was bound up in a white linen coif and she wore her customary French headdress. She was accompanied by four young ladies as she made her final walk from the Lieutenant’s Lodgings to Tower Green. She looked “as gay as if she was not going to die”. She then knelt upright, in the French style of executions and said a final prayer. Her ladies removed the headdress and tied a blindfold over her eyes. The execution was swift and consisted of a single stroke.

Henry did not provide a proper coffin for Anne. Her head and body were placed in a arrow chest and buried in an unmarked grave in the Chapel of St. Peter ad Vincula that ajoined the Tower Green. Her body was later identified during renovations of the chapel during the reign of Queen Victoria. Her resting place is now marked in the marble floor.

Interesting additonal facts: -

- Shortly before was executed on charges of adultery, Thomas Cramer declared the marriage of Anne and Henry was dissolved and invalid. How then could she have committed adultery if she had never been married to the King?

- After her death, a number of myths sprung up about Anne. The most popular is that Anne had six fingers on her left hand but there is no contemporary evidence to support it. None of the many eyewitness accounts of Anne Boleyn’s appearance mention any deformities, let alone a sixth finger. Moreover, as physical deformities were generally interpreted as a sign of evil, it is difficult to believe that Anne Boleyn would have gained Henry’s romantic attention had she possessed any.


References:

http://tudorhistory.org/boleyn/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anne_Boleyn

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New (to me) music

July 21, 2008

On Friday night, M and I did a little shopping venture to Sonic Boom to check out some new CDs.  M went for the specific route – as in searching for particular albums he wanted, and I opted to get inspires by rummaging through each of the new arrivals rack.  After finding many awesome possibilities, I finally narrowed my selections down to the following:

1. Details by Frou Frou -
The album featuring the song “Let Go” which is also on the soundtrack for Garden State.  Very good.  I have lots of the lead singer Imogen Heap’s solo work, but this is a nice contrast with some more electronic elements and poppy sound.  It’s mellow but fun, and I’m definitely digging it.

 

 

2. Welcome to the Cruel Worls by Ben Harper -
I used to have this on my very first iPod as Karl gave it to me.  Alas, the cruel world played a trick on M and I when our iPods were stolen.  Gah!  I’ve been wanting to add this back to my collection again as there are some very good tunes.  Happy to have it back.

 

 

 

3. Michigan by Sufjan Stevens -
I’ve been wanting this one for a while, and it was the only album I specifically went looking for.  I really love the song “Oh God, where are you now?” that Leah sometimes sings at church.  Plus Sufjan is awesome.  Seriously.  Very good listen.

 

 

 

4. The Moldy Peaches -
After the “Anyone else but you” making it as the movie song for Juno, there are a least a few people who have heard of these people.  I learned a few more songs from their repetoire from Dave while at his cottage, and when I stumbled on this album, I couldn’t help by buy it.  In the end, with songs like “Who’s Got the Crack?” can you really go wrong?

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One day more

July 20, 2008

It’s one more day and the week is over – that is of course if you consider Sundays to be the last day of the week and not the first, as some do. I’ve blogged every day this week and I feel good about that. M is away, and I feel kind of weird about that. I used to live alone, but now I’m so used to having my love/roomie around that it’s strange to not have him around. But that’s ok – I’m sure I’ll keep myself busy this week.

Today was a fun day – I had to say goodbye to M at about 6 am, and I slept a little bit longer and got up around 9. I was meeting up with a friend, Cath, today to head over to a bridal shower for Trina. It turned out to be a good day – Cath and I had a fun time shopping for something that could be used between 8:00 and 10:00 – and we went for the evening, but that’s all I will say about that. ;) The afternoon was fun, and it ran until about 5:30. It was pouring rain, so I opted to be a heathen again this week and chilled at home. I wasn’t feeling the greatest anyhow, and sometimes I feel it’s just not right to go to church if you’re not feeling it. Lip service isn’t the true way to meet God.

This evening, I’ve been chilling out – mostly just watching some TV. My knee is tender and my sciatic nerve seems to be irritated, so I figure it’s good to just enjoy an evening. Tomorrow’s a start to another work week, and I want to do the best I can do and leave everything ready for the newbie. It’s the least I can do.

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A very busy day

July 19, 2008

Today was full of stuff. Our planned trip to Sarnia had to once again be postponed because M has to work up north as of Sunday. Instead, we took a much needed trip to the K-dub to visit Mum and Dad. I was a good drive, we made it to KW in just about an hour, and we arrived a Mum’s at dead on 10:00, as planned! Woo! We swept Mum away to the Farmer’s Market – the first stop being a feast of totally amazing apple fritters – and then taking a stroll around the market. It was so blessedly hot that we made it a very quick trip, leaving with a few desired items – mainly fresh cherries and home-made Mennonite cookies. Yum!

After getting home M and I helped Mum with some much needed chores like mowing the lawn and changing the sheets on the beds. Mum’s recently had surgery on her hands for carpal tunnel, so she can’t do any of these things – we were glad to help out. We got lots done – we even made a trip to the thrift store to get rid of some of the things Mum didn’t want anymore. Then it was a well deserved lunch break – we tucked in in the basement, as it’s the coolest place in the house. Ugh!

Next we headed to SSH to visit Dad. He’s looking so much better – still very skinny, but that’s to be expected as he’s been in the hospital for about 10 weeks now and has only been doing physio for a small portion of that time. He’s up and walking around now, which is great, and he seems to be relishing the freedom he has at Sunnyside. Very good to see, as I think it’s improved his morale and want to get better. They’re projecting that he’ll make it home at the end of the month, which will be nice, though Dad will still have to do some serious physio at home too.

After the visit, M and I dropped off Mum and headed back to the city. We had a small shopping stop downtown, as M needed to replace a pair of jeans, and well, I just like to shop! ;) Then we got some groceries, ate dinner, and have been vegging ever since. It’s nice. I’m sooo looking forward to be shortly, especially as we’ve got AC in the bedroom.

Tomorrow will be another adventure – though I’ve gotta say, I’ll really miss M this week – he doesn’t come back until next Sat. Love you, babe.

Signing off.